Well, men an women are different creatures. We have different chemical makeups so we do handle and react to things differently, however, people are still individuals. Mr. Carter makes some good points, yes. Men do not like needy women and love a women who is confident and knows who she is and what she wants out of life. But, he does make it sound like women are to blame if they do not have a man or a good man. This is not true. You have to be yourself and all women are emotional and this will not change. I am a very emotional women and wont apologize for what comes natural. However, how you handle your emotions when it comes to a man is what matters. But, they need to take responsibility for their actions and behaviors as well. Its complicated. Just be yourself and hope for best!